There was a great article on Dictionary.com this week about confusing “I” and “me”
Click over here if you’d like to take a look. http://hotword.dictionary.com/youandme/
Misuse of these two words is really common. I hear people do it all the time. Even in my own house, which I try to keep as grammatically correct as possible.
The words “I” and “me” get my husband and me into a rumble once in a while. He will correct one of my sons, and then I will correct him, because my son was right. In our culture in the USA, there is so much “overcorrection” of the word “I” that it is starting to sound right when people use it incorrectly.
Let’s take the first sentence in the previous paragraph. “The words get my husband and me into a rumble.” It sounds wrong, doesn’t it? I actually typed it incorrectly the first time (yeah, I am admitting it) because “I” just sounded right. I then went back and corrected it.
How can you tell if you are wrong? Take out the other person, and leave the sentence the same. Let’s try it.
The words get my husband and me into a rumble
The words get me into a rumble.
The second sounds correct, so we did it right. In this example, “My husband and me” is correct. Now, let’s do it incorrectly
The words get my husband and I into a rumble.
The words get I into a rumble.
Oh! That didn’t work too well, did it? In this case “My Husband and I” is incorrect. If you are ever unsure, just take out the second subject and see how it works out.
Need an example when “I” would be correct? Well, ask and ye shall receive!
George and I should have dinner sometime
I should have dinner sometime
That sounds good. Okay, how about “Me?”
George and me should have dinner sometime
Me should have dinner sometime.
Oh, Yuck! That didn’t work at all. So, in this example, “I” is correct.
The problem is, that “You and I” has been so OVER-CORRECTED, that the word “I” almost always sounds correct. Even to me. In the first example, I really wanted to write “My husband and I.”
This is a case of English being an evolving language. As a writer, you need to make a choice to follow the natural progression of language, or to adhere to “correctness”.
Honestly, between us… your reader probably won’t even notice.
The questions is— which camp your editor/publisher is in?
Ahhh… the quandaries of a writer.